The very first thing Lydia asks is, ‘Have you ever lost a friendship?’ If you said ‘yes’, without saying names, describe what happened to make that friendship end and how you felt.

In your group, think of things that could cause friendships to end.

Share with your group why you think it’s important to have, and keep, friends.

In your own words, explain what integrity is.

Describe what a friend with integrity would do. Consider the three things Lydia tells us; ‘stick to your word, be honest, and think about how your actions affect others’.

Practice the ‘catchphrase’ in both English and Maori.

Imagine if you were getting treated the way you treat other people. Explain to your group if you think you have integrity or not. If not, what kind of things would you like to change?